Obituary of Dale Loy

BIOGRAPHY LOY ~ Dale Wayne Loy passed away near Neilburg, Saskatchewan on Monday, September 27, 2010 at the age of 64 years. Dale will be fondly remembered by all who crossed his path. He will be remembered for many things, including his love for horses, his ski-dooing escapades, his many curling games, and his hours spent socializing and dancing with friends, neighbours, and family. A farmer for over 37 years, he enjoyed all aspects of farming life covering many, many acres in the sprayer and harvesting thousands of bushels with the combine. He was especially fond of meals in the field with all the family and giving everyone a ride around on the combine. Dale will be sadly missed by his 2 children: Evan & Joanne Loy, and Candace & Aron Klassen; 7 grandchildren: Brittany, Eli, Desiree, Aron Jr., Maddie, Lauren, and Ashlyn; His partner, Jane Monnich; His sister Marilyn & Ken Ostensoe, his brother Murray Loy; the mother of his children Lynn Loy, as well as numerous other relatives. The graveside service for Dale was conducted from the Brady Cemetery, Marsden, Saskatchewan on Friday, October 1, 2010 at 11:00 A.M. with Aron Klassen speaking. A eulogy was given by Jim Loy. Special music played was "Look At Us" and "The Cowboy Rides Away". Active pallbearers were Lyle Loy, Grant Jones, Ron Tindall, John Graham, George Hankins, and Kevin Murphy. McCaw Funeral Service Ltd., of Lloydminster, Alberta administered the funeral arrangements. EULOGY Dale was born to Elmer and Marjorie Loy on May 30th, 1946, at the Lashburn Hospital. Dale is survived by Lynn Loy, Mother of his Children, His Partner Jane Monnich, His children , Evan and wife Joanne, and Candace and husband Aron, 7 grandchildren Lauren, Ashlyn , Brittany, Eli, Aron Jr., Desiree and Maddie. His siblings Murray and Marilyn and her husband Ken, and numerous other relatives Dale was pre-deceased by his Parents, Marjorie and Elmer Loy, brothers Ross and Keith, Sister - Law Terrie Bonnar and Nephew Colin Loy. Dale had his education in Marsden, growing up on the farm and doing everything that boys do. After finishing school Dale joined the Militia. He spent two years in Camp Wainwright and Dundurn, Saskatchewan. He spoke about the rigid training, but considered it an important time in his life and the great experience that it was. Murray's thoughts: Brothers.... Murray and Dale, Dale and Murray. We spent many happy times together. Farming.... Well we could fill volumes with the conversations. Seeding and harvest time, talking on the CB radios. "How many bushels are you getting"….."How fast are you running?" With the handles, Green Hornet, Chief and Casey Jones, the conversations were entertainment to those who listened in. Dale and I had a long history of curling together. Saskatoon to the Bond, Farmers bonspiel in Lloyd, the Irma Summer spiel for 20 years and curling in numerous places. I think many people knew us as we worked hard and played hard. One of our proudest moments was when we had the team of Dale and Evan, myself and Jordan in Irma. Back in the dating days meant white shirts, ties, shined shoes and clean Chev Impalas. Dales was a black 63 and mine was a white 63. I think that a few times, we tried to find out who had the best or fastest car. They looked pretty sharp pulling out of the driveway on a Saturday night. Even though I can't be there today. Nothing will ever break the Bond of Brothers. I'll miss you Good Buddy. . Marilyn's thoughts: A relationship between a brother and sister can take many turns in a lifetime. My earliest recollection of Dale was his teasing and tickling and Ross saying "Dale, if you don't stop that, I'll pound You". Before Dale got his driver's license, he would be stuck babysitting me. We would make popcorn or unbaked cookies with the Elvis Presley records playing. The kitchen was a disaster when we were done. Dale and I were always close and through my married life to Ken, we shared wonderful times together. Klondike days, Fishing with Dale and Lynn, always lots of laughter and silly things happening. More recently, we spent happy times with Dale and Jane with our fifth wheels. It was a blast. We danced to the Emeralds, went to rodeos. Dale was a good dancer and when we danced he made me feel like a queen. OH, those times when Dale would stop in for happy hour. After the first drink, he would say "Can't fly on one wing". Whether it was the two of us or us four, He always made sure I was ok. Crib games.... Well....same amount of holes around the board but Dale would win every time on the inside track. Dale was a man that whatever he did, he gave it his all. He could visit with anyone, any age, any where, and you always came away feeling good. I am so Happy that you were my Brother, You were one of the BEST and we will miss you. Lynn's thoughts: Dale and I were married in 1966, and honeymooned in BC. Our first home was a trailer in Lloydminster. We lived there until Evan was a few months old when we moved to the Family farm. When Evan was a year old, we bought a new trailer and moved to Neilburg. Dale had been driving truck for the Co-op for several years and decided we needed a change so we moved to Camrose. After a time there, we decided to move back to an acreage beside Lloydminster. While there, Candace was born. When she was 3 years old, we made our last move to the Glen Gordon farm that we had purchased at Marsden. Dale farmed with Grant Jones for a number of years. Then in 1985, Dale and Evan began farming together. Dale was always a Farmer at heart. It was hard work but he persevered and made farming his life. He watched his children grow up, finish school, get married and have children of their own. He was so proud. Dale was always a practical joker and on a trip to Victoria, we went to a wax museum. We wandered around though the dark museum and came upon an empty spot. There he stood and posed. The couple behind us caught up and were looking at him when Dale turned and made a noise. The Woman almost had a heart attack. It was good for a laugh afterwards and even funnier when Dale would later tell others. He was so happy in his new combine. With his belly full, enjoying time with Family and his grandchildren, he headed to the field most content. Like Dale's Dad, who went quietly in his sleep, Dale went quietly in the combine. He had much more than one man could ask for but it was not complete until he began farming with Evan. He died a happy man. I will fondly remember you always Dale. Evan's and Candace's thoughts: Dale, Our Dad, "What a Man". He was kind and thoughtful and would do anything he could to help others. He loved the land, and was never afraid of work no matter what it was. We have many wonderful memories of our years growing up. He had a spontaneous personality and his sense of humour could make anyone laugh. He had the ability to tease and could say things that most of us couldn't get away with. We had many camping trips as a Family, often going to Pine Cove. We would catch lots of fish, sit around many a campfire and cooked lots of burnt marshmallows. They were dad's favorite and the most fun to cook. Dad was a natural entertainer. One Christmas, he got a chainsaw for a gift. He figured that he needed to carve the turkey with it. That was hilarious and you can imagine the rest. The turkey was great !!!!! Dad was everything western his entire life. Major Big Time. That was one of Dad's favorite sayings. He had certain cowboy hats and boots for every occasion. He loved his selection of western shirts, some for work and lots for dancing. His western music was never very far away and he usually had a CD playing. Perhaps some of you didn't know but Dad could play the piano quite well and often sat down to play. One of Dad's most exciting events was when he and Monty, Dad's horse, had the opportunity to go on the 10 day ride with the RCMP March West in 1999. He loved every minute and it was fun filled with some challenges also that he met with no hesitation. He had a video that he often watched with great pleasure every time. Dad loved all animals and had a special way with them, Sometimes, we were positive that he had a language of his own with Monty, as that horse would do anything for him. He wrangled at John Graham's camp, did many trips rounding up cattle in the fall, took Monty to events at the Lake and often rode him to town and even riding him into the bar once or twice. EVAN'S THOUGHTS In recent years, we kept updating our crop sprayer. Dad loved the challenge of the new technology and his GPS gave him much pleasure. He really enjoyed explaining how it worked and all that it could do. He sprayed thousands of acres and was always ready to go when he got the call. Combining was another special time. It was happy times for him. Meals in the field, the fun, the challenges and the camaraderie as he worked side by side with family. Although we were father and son, we more than that…partners and friends. We had a connection that only comes from years of working together. We watched the farm grow over the years…acres and equipment…the result of the hard work and stress that comes with farming. But working with Dad, we, as a team, let it roll right off our backs and we would be on to the next job. Well, maybe after a stop for a "safety meeting" at the end of the block. One thing Dad always said was "We will just do what we can do and don't worry about the rest." This is something I will always try to live by. CANDACE'S THOUGHTS I loved being at a dance where Dad was. I would look forward to our dances together as Dad was such a good dancer and always made me feel like a princess. We would dance to all the oldies but he especially loved the heel toe polka. One Christmas he surprised our family and came home with tickets to Disneyland. Grampa and Gramma Loy came along too. What a holiday it was. It was the best and Dad was the comic that made the trip. He was a good sport being the chosen parent to go on all the scary rides…he didn't seem to mind, even if his legs were a bit rubbery… Dad, You will always be in our hearts. Memories of You and the "Special" Dad and Person you have been, will be with us forever. We Love You Dad. Grandchildren's thoughts: We remember Your special Easter egg hunts. You never made it very easy for us to find the treats either. We know Grampa, that you had as much fun planning it as we had running wildly all over the place. When Brittany was 3 she spent a couple of weeks with Grampa in the summer. Grandpa taught her many things about farm life but the one that she thought was most useful was how to pee outside. Although Grandpa didn't really specify, that it was kind of a "farm thing" and really shouldn't be done on your lawn in downtown Calgary when you "really have to go!" Whether it was gopher hunting with Eli, painting the girls toenails or feeding carrots and apples to Monty, or going for a combine ride…..Grandpa has a special place in the hearts of his grandchildren….. There are so many things we will always remember you for Grampa. We all LOVE you lots and lots and lots. Jane's thoughts: Dale was the most precious person to me. He was the love of my life. Although, we only had a short 8 years together, we accomplished so much and had wonderful times together. We could almost read each others' mind. I first met Dale at a dance, something that was a favorite thing to do. I didn't step on his feet so we got off to a good start. Watrous was our favourite place to dance but we also followed the Emeralds dance band or any dance we could find. On occasion, he would call me on my cell as I travelled home from work. I would drive in, Dale had a drink on the table and he would have the CD playing the tune, "Look At Us". We would have a dance. Dale and I took trips to Mexico, Nashville and we did alot of trips in our RV to places in Manitoba, Alberta and Sask. We had plans to spend our remaining years traveling. I will miss you Dale, You were My Everything. We would like to Thank each of you for coming today. Also to everyone who has helped us prepare for this "Cowboys last ride". We are very grateful to have had so many offers of help, understanding, and just being there for us. Your love and support have meant the world to us all. Dad was a good Father, Grandfather and a good Friend who loved to visit and always brought his sense of humour along. We will all miss Dale, Our Dad and will have much strength with the many good memories he leaves behind. CARD OF THANKS The family would like to thank everyone for the many phone calls, food delivered, cards & donations received. A special thank you to Ryan Graham for looking after Monte at the graveside, the Artland ladies lunch, the Neilburg Ambulance service and Agland and many neighbors for the help & support during harvest. Evan & Joanne Loy & family Candace & Aron Klassen & family Jane Monnich Lynn Loy Ken & Marilyn Ostensoe & family Murray Loy & family Donations in memory of Dale may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation, the Canadian Diabetic Association or the Charity of the Donor's Choice. Following the graveside service, everyone is invited for lunch at the Neilburg Hall. Directions to the Brady Cemetery: 5 miles south of Highway 40 on Artland Road.